Then you'll be dating in no time

Dating advice with alfie karma

The big thing in life is not if you fail, but if you didn't try. Women, go to investment conferences and business achievement classes, because that's where the men are who are likely to ask you out. Meeting someone, rather than a battle of emails and phone talks, is the only way to truly know.

Make yourself actively available. Retired people tell me time and again they never regret what didn't work out, but they always regret what they didn't try but wanted to do. That's just the way it is. Be specific about what you're looking for, and then you'll maximize your chances of finding it. Just focus on avoiding the bad match, and above average compatibility but not perfect compatibility.

If you don't find someone, at least you can say you put in the effort. Just today a fiend wanted to know when she might get married, we checked her readings, and two years from now she has a Marriage plot line in store should she choose it.

Make yourself actively

Now let's say you find someone and you're wondering about getting serious. What people really want is when they meet someone because he or she is introduced to them and their background is known. Then you'll be dating in no time.

The truth is that lousy matches poor compatibility scores almost always stay lousy, and even great matches still might lack the chemistry or karma for that special spark. Expecting to meet someone when doing nothing, like expecting the perfect job to fall into our laps, just doesn't happen unless we work at it. You want to meet someone, which means someone new.

Retired people tell

The middle of the road matches are perfectly fine because they have the potential to become better if you work on them. First, if you want to meet someone, then get out there to mix and mingle.

So don't worry about lack of perfection. And by the way, the Karma Calculator often gives readings saying this is a great year for romance. First thoughts are usually right.

If you get out there, you're putting yourself in the position where karma can finally grab hold of something and manifest. However, most people are naturally scared and wary of an unknown individual introducing themselves because we don't know their background.